If you are a man and your marriage

 If you are a man and your marriage is near then read carefully 

 The first change you will notice after marriage is that people will ask you the same question….

 From one week to 3 months after the marriage, he will be asked what has changed in his life after the marriage.

 Now coming to the life lesson

 Out of 6-8 closets after marriage, you might get one or half a closet to keep your clothes arranged according to your begum.

 Try to put whatever you use back to its place like a wet towel, otherwise you will remember school days and mother's scolding but it will be bitter.

 If ever something your Begum misplaces, then like good children, put it back in its place yourself. Complain to Begum and she will remind you with the day, date and time. When did you throw anything around!

 Appreciating Begum more and more will create peace in life.

 Accept that you are the husband and can't do anything right, the onus is on you to argue and prove yourself right, which may result in you having to apologize for gifts and take out food. Is.

 After marriage you will have to distinguish between soap, face wash, conditioner

 And many new colors besides blue, yellow and white will be remembered!

 If you ever think that you understand your Begum, then you are a fool.

 And sometimes it seems that your wife does not understand you, then you are still an idiot...

Muslim Woman Hijab is my identity

*🍃Hijab is my identity🍃*

 A week later, Iqra got married to Miraj, now she had become Iqra Miraj from Iqra Anwar.

 Wow, Iqra, you are now my sister-in-law, so now I will call you sister-in-law, not you, okay, Iqra, sister-in-law?

 Sadia mischievously said that ever since the marriage, she had been teasing Iqra, sometimes she would make her shut up by staring at Iqra, sometimes by scolding her, but after being silent for a while, she would speak again.

 Sadia, if you don't shut up now, I will start crying, Iqra threatened her

 Oh, the bride-to-be should not cry while leaving, otherwise if she cries now, we should send her off with Meraj Bhai right now.

 Laiba, who had just come from downstairs, started teasing her after hearing Iqra's words.

 Iqra said in a weak voice that she was already nervous and these two were harassing her from above.

 Yes me too because me and Sadia are partners

 Laiba held Sadia's hand and said ok, then I am scared, now Iqra turned her face to the other side of the window from both of you, ok stay scared, let's go eat biryani in the other room, Laiba closed one eye and said, Sadia didn't understand.  I saw where I was surprised

 Iqra immediately said that Biryani was her weakness, which was attacked by Laiba and both of them laughed at her haste.

 Oh Allah, make this journey easy for me, make me successful in all the difficulties and trials that come in this new journey, or Allah, I don't know what it is like.

 How not?

 But my master knows what it is?

 what not

 My Lord, thanks to this marriage, give respect and love to each other in our hearts

 May my Lord make this marriage easy for both of us

 O Allah, save those who love in this world from sin and grant them the opportunity to do what they like, marry, and save them from what they do not like.

 After the marriage, Iqra sat and talked with Najma Begum and Sadia.

 We often forget Allah on the occasion of happiness and remember him in sorrow, but as soon as we get happiness, we become engrossed in happiness. The best person is the one who remembers his Lord in every situation.  If you ask for prayers, if you are a Sikh, you should be extremely thankful to the Lord that He has given us this happiness. Allah tests a person even by giving pain.  He narrates the times and also tries by giving pleasure that now my servant remembers me or forgets me even though my Lord knows everything.

 How many times did Laiba say recite Bismillah before every work, but you are the one who forgets it, Iqra said with a little anger, she always used to say to Laiba, but she would forget again.

Sorry I forgot again in a hurry

 Laiba hit her head and said, Sadia was laughing with her face down.

 You forget every time Iqra told him

 Laiba smiled and said she used to tease Iqra on purpose every time.

 No, now this is my sister-in-law and she will be with me all the time, so please find someone else, Sadia said, you can't find someone, but I started looking at her with surprise, why do you look for someone else, she is my friend.

 Laiba held Iqra's arm and said now these are my friends plus sister-in-law

 Sadia grabbed her other arm, shut up both of you and leave me, Iqra said, but it didn't have any effect on them, so Iqra suggested a recipe, Sadia, if you leave me, I will make you comb Pharaoh's daughter. Iqra said to Sadia that she will tell the story of the maid, then Sadia left immediately, she already wanted to hear this story.

 You said it quickly

 Sadia said quickly

 It was narrated from Hazrat Abdullah bin Abbas that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said that on the night of Israa (the tour of the heavens that Allah made the Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, in one night), I began to smell a very high fragrance from a place. Gabriel What a nice scent it is.

 So they replied that it is the combing maid of Pharaoh's daughter and her children.

 When asked about her glory, she said, "While combing Pharaoh's daughter, the comb accidentally fell from the hand of this believing woman, and the name of Allah came out of her tongue." Pharaoh's daughter said, "Allah is my father." "No, Allah is the Lord of my father and your father." Pharaoh's daughter said, "I will tell my father about it." The maid said, "There is nothing wrong."

 Pharaoh called the maidservant and said, "Do you believe anyone other than me as your Lord?" She said, "Yes, my Lord and your Lord is Allah." He and his children should be thrown into it one by one. That believing woman said to Pharaoh, I have a request. Pharaoh said, what is it?

 He said to collect the bones of me and my children in a cloth and bury them. Pharaoh said, "Well, some of your rights are our responsibility, so it is accepted."

 Later, Pharaoh ordered to put his children one by one into a cauldron as hot as fire. He gave speech to the child who was drinking milk) He said (to his mother) "Mother, do not be sorry, but throw it (into the fire) because the punishment of this world is much lighter than the punishment of the Hereafter."

 Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) says that four small children spoke. They are these

 • Isa bin Maryam (peace be upon him).

 • Mr. Jurij

 • Testifier of Yusuf

 • The son of Pharaoh's daughter Mashata (a woman whose profession is to go to people's houses and braid combs)

تخریج(ماخوذ):

أخرجه الإمام أحمد في " المسند " (٣٠٩/١) ، والطبراني (١٢٢٨٠) ، وابن حبان (٢٩٠٣) ، والحاكم (۴٩٦/٢)

Both of them were listening to her in silence. After Iqra finished the story, Sadia spoke after some time

 Pharaoh burned them just for reciting Bismillah. How cruel Pharaoh was

 Sadia was surprised and said that she had not heard this incident before, she only knew that Pharaoh had burned a servant but she did not know why.

 He used to say Nawzabullah that I am your God, call me God and Bismillah means the beginning with the name of Allah, that is, Allah who is the creator of all the worlds, that is, Allah who is the only one, that is, Allah who has no children. Nor is he the child of anyone

 Iqra said, "You Christians believe that Isa is the son of Allah, don't you?"

 Sadia asked, "Yes, they call Jesus the son of God and they are completely misguided. It is known that there is a lesson in the story of Pharaoh's daughter Mashata that even if you die, do not deviate from your religion of Islam, because life is going to die." The thing is, today people will leave the path of Islam due to the fear of death, but death will still come, the same death that will come when they leave Islam. Allah Almighty gives them a lot of reward, this world is temporary and the life of the hereafter is the real life. Even while giving, faith should not be weakened, but should be strengthened. Amen

 Iqra said then both of them said Amen...!!!

 *The series continues...*

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How to manage mother's time

How to manage mother's time...!!!

 Every mother wants her child to be disciplined, but we have to organize our life before having children.

 We say that because I am a mother and I have a lot of work to do, I can be unruly and the child should do everything properly. In terms of this, he is also facing problems.

 Discipline will come in your child when there is discipline in your life.

 When you *discipline the children, adopt a method that does not spoil the relationship between you and the children* Instead of giving long lectures, do smart work. For example, if a child is asking for fast food and you don't want to give permission, instead of lecturing, say so

 That he should eat food first, then fast food after that, when his stomach is full, fast food will be left somewhere behind

 If the child is asking for a game and you want to teach him, you have to make a rule that the lesson comes first followed by the game and that too with time *never let the time waster come first.

 When you are dealing with so many challenges like watching the kids, managing the house, doing outside chores, you don't understand what to do with the kids* what to teach, when you yourself are tired, you say that you Look at the mobile, you play with toys. There is only one solution to all these problems that you should have a road map that what time the child has to do and how much to teach every day. It should not be that one day is taught, one day is not started, sometimes another is started.

 We don't manage ourselves and start blaming others* that my husband is too lazy or my in-laws have a lot of problems.

 If the child is interested in unimportant tasks and leaving the important tasks, then you will do the important tasks first, so the unimportant tasks will automatically decrease.

 Organize yourself and your problems will start to be solved.* We want everyone around us to change but the most important thing is that the change should start from yourself...!! !

Prayers and Miracles

  Prayers and Miracles:

 Why do we want to know Allah only through the acceptance of prayers? The prayer of Hazrat Nuh (as) was not accepted, which he did for his son. Why do we want to find Allah through miracles? What is the reason that we will accept Allah as Allah when He keeps us happy? He will shower us with abundance of blessings. Will make all our work. Only ease will give us ease.

 If after all this you will consider Allah as Merciful or Good Allah, then you cherish your happiness, Sikhs, and eases, not Allah. Hazrat Musa was lowered into the water, then he reached a palace, his mother still did not ask for any miracle. Hazrat Hajra was left alone. The new-born son in his lap was throbbing with thirst, even then he did not ask for a miracle. They tried. They ran. They persevered.

 Why do we need miracles?

 Those for whom miracles happened, did not ask for miracles. No prophet ever asked for a miracle. Miracles were asked for by those who did not believe in Allah. Believers did not ask for any sign of Allah's presence. Those who doubted the existence of Allah wanted signs. The miracles that happened were due to the perseverance of the servants of Allah. Hazrat Musa (peace be upon him) was given a staff, and then a miracle. Hazrat Musa (A.S.) only asked for one prayer to untie my tongue. He did not ask Allah to give me immense power, to give me an army, to give me confidence that I will be victorious. While he prayed, he asked for ease of language.

 need:

 Look at what you ask from Allah. And what you ask for will be granted, then will you consider Allah as Merciful?

 Miracles happen because of human perseverance. And it is for the person who has crossed all the worlds of effort. Who has made patience and mercy his shield. What miracle are those who stay up all night, sleep all day, gossip, lie and waste time waiting for and why???

 The Word Lives On. 

 It is not necessary that what is asked for will be found at the same time, and it is not necessary that what is not written in the destiny will never be written as a part of the destiny...!!

 It's just the order of time, everything is planned by Allah Almighty, it may not be according to the time you think, but whatever happens will happen according to your will.

 If everything starts to happen immediately and everything starts to happen as you want, then how will you know that what you get by asking Allah, the Exalted, and praising Allah, the Exalted, is not the same as getting it without asking for it. If sleep begins to fall in your eyes, how will you be able to hear the whispers between you and Allah in the darkness of the night...??

 Your prayers have been heard, but this is the time of trial, how long do you wait...!! Your peace is only in understanding that whatever happened happened by the will of Allah Almighty and whatever happens will happen only by the will of Allah. Take what can change the reality and the only way to celebrate it is prayer, patience, faith and waiting....!! Everything is attached to you or removed from you for some purpose and you can never know that purpose, you just have to be sure that that purpose is God's purpose...!

 And what he knows you can never know, just rest assured that the one in whose hands is your destiny is the king of miracles and there is no better writer than him, he can turn every side of the story whenever he wants.. .!! He can change every word of fortune and make every aspect of life according to your wish, you believe in him and he will believe in you...!!!

 May you always be safe......Amen

Talking On The Phone For Hours After The Engagement. 

 This was his third call since the engagement and they had only been engaged for a week. Inevitably, he received the call. A formal greeting was also exchanged after Alik Silik.

 See, wasting food is not a good thing. He said seriously without preamble.

 what does mean??? Saba did not understand anything and inquired about this direct sentence.

 This is the daily call and what else? The answer came from the other side.

 What?? What do you mean?? I did not understand?? Surprise was reflected in his tone.

 Calling you is a waste of money. He asked in an explanatory manner.

 Saba Rizk is not just the name of money or food items. The word Rizq is used for every favor bestowed by Allah Ta'ala on His servants. He said in an explanatory manner.

 For example ??? Saba asked with interest.

 For example, clothing, good health, home, happiness, life, everything that is included in the necessities of life. And you must know that the sustenance of every part of creation has already been written in a certain amount. He said, extending the conversation

 Like how many breaths one will live, how many sips of water and how many grains one will satiate, all these are written in a certain number and quantity in the part of every creature. Assume that a quota has been allocated. One can take more and no less. Yes, you are absolutely right. He agreed

 And you know what happens if we start using this stock before the right time or unnecessarily?

 Yes Need will remain and sustenance will run out. You understand exactly right. And Saba, I believe that emotions and feelings are also written in our destiny like provision, that is, who we will love and how much we will hate or how long we will stay together. has been done.

 In the same way, the time between you and me has been fixed, the moments have been allocated, the amount and intensity of love has been fixed. Laughter, laughter, talk have all been written.

 Saba, do you want the provision of both of us ends prematurely?? He asked after a pause. She could not say anything, maybe she understood everything

 Saba. He called out to Rasan

 Yes He replied in a muffled voice

 To talk to you. To share time with you.

 Telling happy stories of your past. To laugh Your mischief Your stupidity. Like or dislike.

Your successes. Failures. I also want to share my happiness and sadness with you. I don't want to spend all these precious and memorable moments behind this phone with a pictureless voice. "I" do not want to die of starvation after prematurely exhausting the sustenance of "our" portion. I want us to enjoy the sustenance and fellowship of "our" portion to the full, not half-heartedly.

 Don't you want us to live all these happy moments together and see the sparkle in each other's eyes sitting face to face?? Happy to see each other laughing and smiling??

 On the other side there was complete silence.

 Saba, I don't want to not be able to see a smile on your face when I talk to you.

 I don't want to not be able to see the concern on your face when I mention any of my problems to you. I don't want, God willing, when I face a failure, you make me feel like you belong with just words.

 I want to feel your pat on my shoulder for my success. I want to see with my own eyes the blush that appeared on your cheeks when I saw you for the first time.

 I don't want to resort to poor metaphors to express my subtle feelings. I don't want to waste all my sustenance like this, Saba. I want to live all these moments with you in your company. He said a little helplessly as if he was tired of explaining.

 Hearing all this on the other side of the phone, she blushed, biting her lower lip with her teeth

 Now the decision is yours. Do you want to waste the sustenance or enjoy it to the fullest?? He said with finality

 "Ok Allah Hafiz" without giving him a chance to answer, he cut the call with a smile and announced his decision.

 "Crazy girl" she also kept the phone aside while laughing...!!!

 Funny Story Just Smile... 

 The professor was lecturing on a very important topic, as soon as he turned to write something on the blackboard, a student whistled.

 The professor turned around and asked who blew the whistle, but no one was willing to answer. You closed the pen and put it in your pocket and picked up the register and said while walking; My lecture has come to an end and that is enough for today.

 Then he paused a bit, putting the register back and saying, let me tell you a story to pass the time.

 They said: I tried hard to sleep at night, but sleep was far away. Thinking about it, I pour petrol in the car so that some of the uniformity created at that time will end, I will be in the mood to sleep and I will avoid the trouble of filling petrol early in the morning.

 Then I filled petrol and started driving here and there to spend time in the same area.

 After a lot of confusion, when I turned the car to return home, my eyes fell on a girl standing on the side of the road, young and beautiful, but also with a tan, she seemed to be coming back from a party.

 I went along and stopped the car and asked, should I drop you at your home?

 She said: If you do that, it will be very kind, I can't get a ride at this time of night.

 The girl sat next to me in the next seat, the conversation was very polite and elaborate, with complete mastery and mastery of every subject, as if there was a wonderful combination of knowledge and culture.

 When I reached his house at the address he had told me, he confessed that he had never seen such a learned and sophisticated person as me, and that he had developed a love for me in his heart.

 I also told her clearly, the truth is that you are also a masterpiece, I have also fallen in love with you. At the same time I told him that I am a professor in the university, a PhD doctor and a useful member of the society. The girl asked for my telephone number, which I gave her without hesitation.

 After hearing about my university, he said happily; I have a request from you.

 I said; Don't beg, command.

 said; One of my brothers studies in your university, request you to take care of him.

 I said; It's not a big deal, you name it.

 said; I will not tell you his name, but I will tell you a sign, you will recognize him immediately.

 I said; What is the special sign, by which I will recognize him?

 said; He likes to whistle a lot.

 The professor said so much that every student in the class looked involuntarily towards the boy who blew the whistle.

 The professor said while addressing the boy

 Come on, what do you think I got for this PhD degree?

Wise Priceless Ten Words

Trial Is A Condition....! 🙄 

 1- Squeeze a lemon in the bath water before bathing. You will not need to use expensive perfumes

 2- Apply fresh milk foam on the lips daily. Your lips will be naturally pink and soft.

 3- Take mustard oil and castor oil and keep it in an old empty mascara bottle on your side table and apply it on the eyelashes every night before going to bed. In 3 months, the eyelashes will be so long and thick that you need mascara or fake. There will be no need to apply eyelashes

 4- Instead of using an expensive face wash, wash your face with a little vinegar mixed with yogurt every day. The dust and dirt of the whole day will be removed from your skin and the glue and shine that will come will be different.

 5- Keep your water bottle with you and add 6-7 mint leaves in it and drink water from the same bottle throughout the day. Doing this will make your skin healthy from inside and your skin will be protected from pimples and all problems.

 6- Take onion juice and coconut oil and apply it on your hair twice a week, it will keep your hair soft, straight, long and thick.

 7- Mix rose water, glycerin and lemon juice by weight and keep it in the fridge and use it twice a day as a hand lotion. Makes hands soft in 2 days and permanently whiten in 3 months.

 8- Make a thin paste of honey, multani mud, turmeric and rose water and apply it on the skin with pimples and wash it off after drying.

 9- Add 2 small cardamoms, a piece of cinnamon, a little fennel and mint leaves to a cup of water every day before going to bed, and make a routine of making coffee and drinking it. See skin glowing in 21 days.

 10 - Make a routine of applying almond powder and rose water mask on the skin twice a week for 25 minutes. Your skin will be tight and free from wrinkles. When you reach the age of 50, you will look like 25.

Marriage Is Half Religion. 

 Marriage is half religion. Half of the religion is hidden in the marriage. At the time of marriage, nowadays in our society, the boy's bank balance is seen and the family is not very big and the boy's parents see how much dowry they can get, religion is not given priority. Get married after looking at religion. If you look at the life of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, Hazrat Khadijah was inspired by the morals of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and sent a message of relationship. When Lady Jannat asked for the relationship of Fatimah al-Zahra, the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) also asked her for her consent. We see two things in this, one is that Islam allows a girl to marry as she likes, and get married after asking her consent, not only the girl should be asked, the boy's consent should also be asked. And the second thing is to look at morals while getting married. 

First, the one who is religious will also have the best morals. Nowadays, we marry them without knowing their consent. For God's sake, before doing this, ask their consent, the mother and sister of the girl. They are like friends, they should ask them about their likes and dislikes, fathers and brothers are like friends to a boy, ask the boy about his likes and dislikes, do the marriage according to the religion, if you will do it according to the religion. Generations will fade away and both worlds will fade away in the Hereafter. I hope that if any father or mother, sister or brother reads this article and marries his daughter-in-law or daughter-in-law according to it, then my purpose of writing this article will be fulfilled...!!!

Marriage Of Alamat Muslim Story

 Marriages of Alamat

 A scholar who studies for six years is devoted to the service of religion. Like other girls, her dreams are not Kothi Bangla car, but her desires and aspirations are university, teaching, education and students. She wants that She should serve the religion with full freedom. There are many lucky sisters whose good wishes are fulfilled. Any in-laws. He has to leave his parents' house and go to someone else's house. Now it depends on his own wishes and thoughts as to who sees his wishes in the in-laws.

 If you get married in a religious family, if your companion is a religious scholar, then life will surely become heaven, because peace is not found in wealth and wealth, but in the fulfillment of your wishes. Such sisters get ample opportunity to serve the religion. That when a relationship comes, the people of our houses check it from the point of view of wealth and wealth. Now the condition of the scholars is generally weak in terms of finances in the society, and then they studied in Madrasa Deeniya in the hands of those spoiled by wealth and wealth. The hand of the ulama is stopped. Where the religious service becomes difficult even apart from the Sharia veil. This poor person gets to hear the taunts of Malwani and Gunwar from the side of Dewaranis. In order to save their home, they accept everything and get adjusted to the environment. In this case, they get to hear these taunts that even after becoming a scholar, she does not cover up, etc.

And there are some who cannot walk in this environment, who consider the veil necessary, who do not come in front of the husband's cousins, do not joke with the brother-in-law and do not take selfies. It happens and then it becomes known everywhere that madrasa people don't even know how to build a house, etc. Of course, every girl's parents and brothers try to find a good relationship for their daughter, sister, so that our girl can learn. Because in their eyes, good and bad are dependent on wealth and similarly Sikh sorrow is also related to wealth and poverty. The consequences of which these signs have to suffer.

 Every scholar has six years of education during education, she can brainwash her parents and brothers that it is necessary to have kafu, there is no doubt about it, but even in kafu, it is important to prioritize piety and education. also pay in full and the mood of those who have studied in both madrassas is also the same. If we prepare our parents in advance that we don't want wealth and respect, then surely it can be of some benefit. Otherwise, immediately after graduation, mentions of marriage and Preparations begin and then desires and aspirations begin to die and then finally, even after this cruelty, the infamy of the signs...

Abbas Khalifa Abu Jafar-Al-Mansur

 One was the Abbas Khalifa Abu Jafar-Al-Mansur!

 Had the memory of the call!

 Any qasida would be memorized after hearing it once, he had a slave who was also very intelligent, he would remember any qasida after hearing it twice.

 In the same way, he had a slave girl who was also endowed with intelligence.

 Al-Mansoor had announced that if a poet recited such a poem to him that he had not heard before, the gold equal to the weight of the tablet or paper on which the poem is written is his!

 Many poets used to reach the court for their qasidas, recited qasidas in the service of the king.

 The poet could not get over the shock of being told that my slave had heard this poem. A slave who had heard the poem twice and had memorized it, would have recited it when ordered.

 The poet would try to say in a low voice, "Alijah, this is purely my word." Then he would get the answer, "This poem is so common that even my maidservant knows it." It would have been taken and she would have recited Farfar Qaseeda and the poet would have been left with his mouth shut!

 Many poets and writers tried to fight this battle, wrote different types of poems, but they had to eat their mouths, so the poets started feeling very ashamed and embarrassed.

 When the news of the humiliation of the poets at the hands of the king reached the famous poet and scholar Abdul Malik Asmai, he decided to teach Al-Mansoor a lesson.

 He wrote a qasida with rare and unfamiliar words and techniques, made his dress like a Bedouin Arab because the king knew him, and went to Al-Mansur's court.

 appeared in front of Amirul Momineen and said, I have such a qasida which you have not heard before.

 He began to read:

 The voice of Safir al-Balbal is heart-warming

 Water and poison together with poison

 And you or Sidli and Siddi Wm. Wali Lee

 Fikam Fikam Timni Ghazilal Aqiqili

 Q. Tafta min Wajna min Lathm Ward Al-Khajl

 He said, "Lalalalala, Qad Ghada Mehrul."

 Al-Khooz Malat Tarbaa Min فلي هذا الرجل...

The king could not remember him.

 The poor man had to remember that the slave was called, he had only heard it once.

 The concubine was presented and she was also rejected.

 According to the condition, Al-Mansoor said that present the tablet on which the poem is written.

 Asmai said, King Salamat, I inherited a piece of marble from my father. I have carved this poem on it. And it is loaded on my camel. I am unable to carry it alone. Send your soldiers!

 Four soldiers picked up this piece of marble and brought it to the service of Amirul Momineen. King Salamat was surprised and worried!

 However, the equivalent of gold was paid from the treasury, said a minister when Isma'i started to leave

 Amirul Momineen This poet can be none other than Asmai.

 Al-Mansoor said: This action with Asami Amirul Momineen.

 Asma'i replied, "O Ameerul Momineen, this is the answer to what you have shut off the right of the poets."

 Al-Mansur ordered to deposit this gold back in Baitul-Mal, but Isma'i refused to comply.

 Finally Asmai said that Amirul Momineen can return it only on one condition.

 Al-Mansoor asked on what condition?

 Asmai said that if you pay the reward to all the poets, whether it is their own speech or their copied words.

 Al-Mansur accepted this condition and Asma'i deposited this gold in Baitul-Mal.

 One who has little relevance to Arabic literature cannot be oblivious to this late exemplary qasida..... Take the qasida here.. Listen and listen...!!!

If You Are A Woman And You Use Social Media

Note:

 If you are a woman and you use social media, then you must know these things

 1. Be careful while using social media. First of all, avoid mixing with men

 2.. If you are a university student, a teacher, a scholar, then you should be more careful. Your responsibility is 100 levels higher than the common people because you have a great name associated with you. We don't think about it, but the people think about this thing enough, this name immediately comes to mind, a girl with a pious and polite, dignified temperament, who reads Qal Allah Qal Rasool, a pure-bred, honorable, strict for non-mahrams.

 3. Do not make your posts public but limit them to yourself and your friends and avoid being too funny with friends you don't know.

 4. If despite all these things, you want to increase your knowledge of religion and read the posts of scholars, then read their posts, but do not give heart-like reactions or laughing or blue likes to their posts, but make piety mandatory. Keep your dignity and read the post immediately and walk away quietly from there

 5..Stay away from the rest of the non-mahrams. It is important that if you have to ask something, if you need to ask something in a very urgent tone, then return from there.

6... Don't trap yourself in Satan's trap by being influenced by the good manners of a non-Muharram. Poison is always mixed with these sweet tones and good manners. Here the matter gets worse when the gentle tone in front of the person pretends to be religious.

 7... Even if they are your teachers, is it permissible to talk to them on social media?

 If you have to talk about something very important, do it. When the talk is over, come back.

 8.. Using emojis while talking to men

 When you talk to an opposite gender, the use of emojis makes your expression clear, like the sign of anger, the sign of happiness, the sign of mood, the sign of love.  The purpose of the conversation should not go further than this, whether it is your teacher, an elder of the family or any non-mahram.

 So in such a situation, how can it be permissible to explain all your feelings to a man?

 Have we ever thought how our expressions will affect someone's heart?  Allah also forbade us to adopt a soft voice and a soft tone, so let's clarify our condition that now I am laughing, now I am showing mood, now I am a little sad and now I am getting completely angry. Here are my feelings.  Are you in love and have a little smile here?

 With these small emojis, your whole condition becomes clear.

 7.  And yes, the most important thing is to use your DP, I mean Hijab DP or any DP.

 Rather, you should keep a profile of Allah or any religious post.

 8.  Your profile identifies you and Islam has kept women anonymous. You are a scholar, a student, a teacher, a big name is associated with you.

 9.  Laughter by adding non-mahrams and lots of jokes are the work of extremely weak and fallen people. Scholars do not do such things.  Strange movements.

 10.. You convey your knowledge to people by doing religious posts, but the next person does not need your religion. If so, why don't you learn in the mosque madrasa in your village, but what is the intention of those non-mahrams coming to your post?  You and I are  well aware of this...!!!